The Musical Badboy

So here we are after the last relationship came crashing down. It started in young love and ended in a heated argument over trust. Now the real story is about this new fellow. The musical badboy. Now why would my dearest sister go after a player after that last cheating scandal? I must confess that even I took a short bit to figure that brain twister out. It appears that my sister liked the game more than she led on. She has a strong capacity to argue and she is extremely good at it. So now these two birds are talking, but are they in love? The musical badboy fits perfectly to his name, at least for awhile. Does this suggest that she succeeds in her changing ritual? In the beginning, he would not date her. He was seeing multiple girls and had a few that he liked the most, my sister being one of them. The strange part was that she knew and agreed to all this. She did not mind being in a Hugh Hefner situation, especially when she was Holly. It only made the game more invigorating. So they went on hanging out and partying and doing what they do when in that type of open relationship. Only, she started letting on that she wanted to close that relationship, make it exclusive. Of course this little player was reluctant. He wanted to live it up in his youth, not to be tied down like a ball and chain at the bottom of the lake. But eventually, she gnawed away at his thoughts of having multiple girls, and made him a one girl kinda guy... but would it last? ... Do people really change?

The Rebound

Now that you understand where the quiet cocky one stands, its time to introduce the musical badboy. While on the short spat with the quiet one, she met this other guy. First impression: player. The quiet cocky one failed to meet her needs any longer. Truthfully, perhaps she never completely forgave him. So here we are, a dying relationship, while another is beginning to blossom. I personally have always had mixed feelings about this next one, but we are about to dive off a cliff head first.

Surprise Surprise

Perhaps your here to see how she handled that little worm. Well what did you hope? That she would send him away and never look back? Or were you hoping for an everlasting love? Well if you want to know the truth... she forgave him. Yes, the quiet cocky one was given another chance, but not without consequence. She held him on a leash so tight I'm surprised he didn't suffocate. Who knows, maybe he was into that sort of thing, maybe it made the game all the more interesting. But don't worry your little mind, I said this was a long list.

The Quiet, Cocky One

When you hear someone being described as quiet you usually would not imagine them also being described as cocky. This one was quite interesting. His quietness sprouted most likely from the cockiness due to his thought that he was too good for whoever engaged him in conversation. Being that he had some money in his wallet, he thought who he was. Of course my sister, the girl who loves to fix people, fell in love with him, and once she has her claws in someone... well... your going to need the jaws of life to ply that one off anyone. And so her love and devotion blinded us, the family and friends, of his less than attractive ways. 

I believe this one lasted about a year before destruction and devastation hit. This scholarly fellow decided to take a summer activity where you sleep away for 6 weeks. Let's just say, he wasn't sleeping alone. So we refer to this as summer #1. I don't know how I managed not to strangle her for all the yelling, tantrums, and full on balling for the whole summer. You may ask how this overly confident boy was found out anyway... Let's just say my sister is quite the investigator, as is any overly jealous girlfriend. She also has many guy friends who will bend over backwards to help her. So with this duo, she managed to find pictures and conversations and rumors about her ill-hearted boyfriend, and some certain sweets he's been flavoring. So must I elaborate? or do we all grasp the fact that she would not go down without a fight.... But what we all want to know is.. how did it end? did she forgive him ?!

The Girl Herself

You must understand who this girl is before you judge or ask yourself why she was ever with them in the first place. The first part is plain and simple. She takes on these guys who she thinks need ...hmmm... improvement, and she will fight with, for, and to them as long as she pleases. The next part is something I have realized. I believe she is drawn to cockiness and guys who other girls want. When people ask me why she is dating someone, the only reason I can give is that she likes they way they treat her. A lot of the time girls feel special when a guy has a weakness for them. It is a certain satisfying feeling to be a guys kryptonite. The one and only thing that can severely sever their heart strings, and my sister likes to tangle her fingers. My sister is one of those people who will not and cannot be alone. Perhaps she feels protected or likes the ability to vent to people. Perhaps its to feel acceptance. What ever the reason, I don't think she's been without a boyfriend for more than two weeks. Once you understand the type of girl she is, you will better understand the choices she makes and the things she will do.

My sister is a few years older than I am. Over the years I have witnessed her with a few guys, to say the least. Perhaps she is the reason I have never had a serious boyfriend, but who knows. Over the duration of my blog I will describe each of her boyfriends, their relationship, and how it affected us all. Stay tuned, this is gonna be a long one.